Brian Andersen, left and Anton Tanumihardja, photographed in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. have been a couple for two years, and last year were married in the District of Columbia. Yet Tanumihardja, who was born in Indonesia and has been in the U.S. legally for nearly two decades, faced deportation last year because federal law doesn't grant same-sex couples the same immigration rights as opposite-sex ones. Federal marriage and immigration policies keep thousands of gay and lesbian couples in limbo. (Curtis Tate/MCT) (Curtis Tate/MCT)